Values are the foundation of our leadership
Every person is made up of
different choices and beliefs. The way we lead and whom we follow are based
highly within our values. This is not to say that we can lose sight of our values
or follow those who do not align with what we believe is our authentic self. Our
values can also help us lead and follow, not with fear, but with belief that we
are taking steps towards a future aligning with what we feel is right. Our
values are shaped by our experiences, by those we hold in admiration, by those
we follow and can sometimes form without even realizing it. When I think of
values and how they are formed, I think of my niece. She is ten and though
there are experiences she has not witnessed firsthand; it is in the moments
that her values are seeming to be questioned that I realize she is learning and
leading by example.
To say that values shape our
decisions and the way we lead, though true, is not absolute and is not always
indicative of positive experience. For instance, if someone’s values align
closely with a more self-serving purpose that could be detrimental to their
society or community, this could lead to decisions being made that are equally detrimental.
Additionally, this could cause you to follow a messianic leader, that perhaps does
not align with your personal or communities needs but does so out of fear that
you will lose your power or role in society (Green & getz, 2018). We may
also develop values from our culture, good and bad, and they can be engrained
in our way of life, our communities, our business models even (Weber, 2010). This
may mean that we face challenges as we encounter leaders with differing yet contradicting
values from our own. Separately, as leaders move forward into our roles in
society, we must ensure that we lead open mindedly to the values of others. This
is something that I fear I struggle with personally; it is not that I am not
open to the values of others, but I can have difficulty seeing contradicting
values at times, not necessarily simply different. In many cases, however, it
is not about deciding which value is better or being correct, but inclusion (Weber,
2010).
In the Leading
Across Differences chapter, there are connections drawn between values and
authenticity. Though authenticity spans beyond just values, I think being the
most authentic version of oneself is something to strive for. For me, this
starts with understanding my values and ensuring that the steps I take support
those. For instance, deciding to work for a certain company, on certain
projects, how you vote, can all be tied to our values. More than sharing our
values with the world, it is important to exemplify how to interact as our most
authentic self and welcoming others to be their most authentic self, even if
that looks different to them than it does to us. This includes behaving in and leading through ways which align with your values. Creating space for understanding, as a leader, is
imperative in leading beyond ourselves. If we were only to lead those who
shared our ideas, thoughts and beliefs, the changes and advances the world has
made may not have come to be. There is a chance that this means there will be
less conflict, but sometimes conflict is a catalyst for successful ideas. On
the other hand, understanding differences and hearing different values can manifest
ideas and change that otherwise may have been lost. Understanding that leader-follower
relationships can benefit from value congruence, should not keep us from leading
across value differences. It should serve as a call to action of responsibility
to work harder to be the leader that strengthens their leader-follower
relationships despite value differences.
Green,
Z, & Getz, C. (2018). United states of America: mourning in America:
leadership in the divided states of America. In United States of America (pp.
170-178). SAGE Publications Ltd, https://doi.org/10.4135/9781529714845
Weber, T. J. (2010). Leader Values and Authenticity.
In Leading across differences: Cases and perspectives (pp.
163–169). essay, Pfeiffer.
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